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The decision to divorce never comes lightly and every divorced person I meet feels as if they mourned the marriage before the separation.And they have – they had to do that to get separated in the first place, unless the whole thing came out of left field.Relationships have gotten really complicated these days.

I must admit, I’ve never fully understood the psychology of abuse – and how people who are objectively treated poorly choose to remain in relationships – but I’m glad you’ve broken free.

More importantly, I’m glad that you’re feeling relieved, happy and optimistic about what happens next – that you’re looking forward to your new lease on life, rather than being paralyzed by fear like so many other victims of abuse.

I just really believe that love may be possible for me after all and I don’t want to quash any potential dates on the basis of some arbitrary rule.

Congratulations, Ann, on having the courage to leave a situation that was making you miserable.

I won’t date anyone unless the paperwork is signed (divorce final is preferred) and they have been separated for at least a year.

If you want sex, find a friend with benefits that is in a similar place as you and is also not in the right place for a committed relationship.

I should mention I have two small children and I don’t want to rush anything.

I just want to ride this wave of optimism because I’ve never felt so confident and lovable before. I don’t have a strong attachment to any man in particular right now.

I most often run into people dating while separated when they're separated themselves and involved with someone else who's separated too.

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